Growing your family is a practical next step for many couples, but like anything in life, it can be tricky to determine when it’s time to add another person to your family. There are several items you should consider before choosing to have a child.
Know There’s Never a Perfect Time
First, it’s critical to know there will never be a perfect time to have a child unless you’re a special couple. There will always be one detail that isn’t ideal. Ultimately, it’s up to you and your partner to wisely determine the best moment and then jump on it.
Consider All the Details
There are ample details to consider when growing your family. From the money in your bank account to your mental stability, every little thing matters. Of course, not all of these will be perfect at once. It’s a good idea to consider the most vital for you and the child you want to raise.
- Finances: It costs money to raise a child and provide them with a healthy life. Consider everything from the cost of birth to the price of food before having a baby.
- Career: Will one of you take on a different job to raise the baby? Will you place them in daycare? It’s vital to get your jobs in order first to avoid conflict.
- Lifestyle: Some lifestyles are not suited for growing a family. If you’re going out every other night and drinking, it might be the time to make some shifts.
- Age: The prime age for women to give birth is between 20-30 for their health and the health of a child. By 35, there are far more health concerns in the process.
- Living situation: It’s best to be in a location where there are places to walk with your child and where they will be safe. Consider if your living situation is ideal for a child.
- Stability: Your mental health and relationship should be steady before welcoming a child. A baby isn’t a bandaid.
Hi! My name is Kimmy B, I am the co-host of the We’reHard podcast. I have a passion for fitness, nutrition and a healthy lifestyle. I’ve always loved working out and staying active but recently found my groove in the fitness industry.