If you have a relationship with your parents, an inevitable part of being with a long-term partner is introducing them to your parents. This process can be intimidating, but there are a few tips you can keep in mind to ensure the get-together goes well.
Best Practices for Introducing Your Parents and Partner
1. Start Small
When introducing your partner to your parents for the first time, start small. Before the big family dinner, consider meeting at a coffee shop or an event where both parties will attend. It’s better to ease your partner into the process rather than an event with a higher chance of discomfort.
2. Discuss Family Dynamics
Before your partner meets your parents, fill them in on various family dynamics. Does your dad have a style of joking that can be tricky to understand? Does your mom have strong political views that might clash with those of your partner? The better you can cushion the conversation before it starts, the easier it will be to relax.
3. Prevent Leaving Them Alone for Long
As is appropriate with first meetings, do not leave your partner alone with your parents for too long. They don’t know each other well, and there is a much higher likelihood that things will go wrong the longer you leave them. If possible, save your extended time in the bathroom after your time with your family.
4. Bring a Present
It will make an excellent impression on your parents if your partner brings a gift. You know your parents better than anyone, so you can help them purchase the right thing to offer to make an excellent impression. Popular gifts might include wine, flowers, or even a gift card. Most of the time, the gift is directed at the hostess.
5. Remember It’s Your Relationship
At the end of the day, remember that this is your relationship. Even if your parents don’t like your partner, you are dating each other – not your parents. It might be tricky, but even a poor first encounter can improve.
Hi! My name is Kimmy B, I am the co-host of the We’reHard podcast. I have a passion for fitness, nutrition and a healthy lifestyle. I’ve always loved working out and staying active but recently found my groove in the fitness industry.