Are you keeping on top of the latest sex trends? Have you considered Praise kinks and Outercourse?
Are you looking to spice things up in the bedroom and feel empowered while you’re doing it? Of course you are. And I……. I mean we…… have the best ways to take the latest sex trends to the next level.
So, lets jump right into the sack! Here are some fun ways to spice up the bedroom.
What is Outercourse? Outercourse is another name for nonpenetrative sex that’s an essential form of pleasure and sexual wellness. Things like Touching, kissing, teasing, and rubbing all count because this doesn’t involve penetration to your Vagina, mouth, or Backside.
Statistics show that 40% to 60% of women masturbate on a regular basis. And from that stat 18% of those women can only orgasm from penetrative sex.
Next is Sexual mindfulness… This is the mental state achieved by focusing one’s awareness on the present moment. This is nothing new, but sexual therapists are touting the benefits of using the art of meditation to boost our sex lives.
Your mindset which includes your thoughts, feelings, and sensations plays a big part in your sexual experience. So getting our minds right and removing those unwanted distractions can really help us to tune up our desire, arousal, and pleasure.
Up to bat is mutual masturbation… While traditional sex with your partner is a tried ((YAWN)) form of intimacy, there’s something incredibly hot about the “look but don’t touch” aspect of mutual masturbation. Grab a toy for yourself, then have your partner use a sex toy of their own while you both enjoy the show—and sensations.
In other videos i can’t stress enough.. but DO Pelvic floor exercises!!
Many women don’t think about the pelvic floor or even understand what exactly it does until childbirth. You need to practice relaxing and tensing your pelvic floor and USE Kegel balls.
If you WANT to achieve an orgasm, if you WANT to increase your vaginal sensation THEN build up these muscles.
People with a fundamentally high level of body tension, who may also often clench their jaw or are used to pain in the area of the eyebrows and lower back, can really benefit from relaxing the pelvic floor. For others, it’s simply another avenue to increase pleasure. And KIM your Right!!!! During sex, the movement of the pelvis, in combination with the tensing and relaxing of the pelvic floor, can increase arousal and powerfully support the path to orgasm.
How about Anal masturbation, Have you tried it? There are many ways to explore this new area for pleasure.
Beginners already have the tools on hand and its so easy. Your literally just need to lubricate your finger and begin practicing. Consider lying on your back, bring your knees to your chest, and place a pillow under your lower back to raise those hips for easy access. YOUR WELCOME!
Next try an Upgraded missionary position. YUM! People are still keen as ever for the longtime favorite, with searches for “missionary” having increased by 22% over the past year, mbut of course, everything old can be made new again, and classic sex positions are no exception.
To take missionary up a notch there are opportunities to be more mindful while in the position, like making intentional eye contact with your partner, focusing on all the erogenous zones, and synchronizing breathing together to take things into tantric territory. Consider using this position as an opportunity to explore power play or incorporate new sex toys. YUM AGAIN!
Lastly Praise kinks can take you to that O. You’ve probably experienced blushing when getting a compliment, right? But what if you experienced a physical response in other areas of your body?
The praise kink—with more than 500 million views on TikTok under the hashtag praisekink —is set to be a growing trend for the rest of the year. The kink encompasses being turned on by compliments, affirmation, and general praise, before or during sex.
Head over to werehard.com and ASK KIM OR AMBER FOR THE FREE PAIR OF UNDIES, but also check out our other goodies you need to take your bedroom experience to the next level. Bye…..
I have been an ace certified personal trainer for over 15 years. Other certifications include kettlebells, TRX, battling ropes, Vpr, yoga fit, AFFA group fitness and more. I have two children who love the gym as much as I do.