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Navigating Different Relationship Milestones: Tips for Getting Engaged

Once you’ve found the perfect person, a next step you can take is to get engaged. It might seem overwhelming to take this step, but with a few tips, it doesn’t have to be. 

Keep reading to learn more about a few tips for getting engaged. This time is a moment to relax and enjoy a massive relationship milestone. Practicing these will make the process far less intimidating. 

Helpful Tips For Getting Engaged

1. Talk About Marriage First 

First, ensure you’ve talked about marriage with your partner before purchasing a ring or proposing. What do they think about getting married? What do they have in mind about marriage, and do they want to get married? Also, set your expectations with each other about your definitions of marriage and expectations. They could be different. 

2. Talk About Life and Future Goals

Before committing to each other forever, speak about the life you envision and any goals you have in the future. Chances are, both of you have given thought to what you want out of the rest of your life. It’s a good idea to get on the same page and consider what’s similar (and what isn’t) to avoid hurt feelings.

3. Consider Engagement Details

If you’re the one proposing, consider the details of the engagement. For instance, you might want to talk to your partner’s parents before popping the question. Also, look at rings with or without your partner to get it right the first time – you don’t want to have to go through the hassle of exchanging an engagement ring.

4. Plan the Proposal Itself

Finally, if you’re the one proposing, prepare for it by planning it. Consider the perfect location, attendees, and date far in advance so you have time to pull yourself together. Planning the proposal will help you feel at ease and confident in your decision.

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