Why Do people Make you fall in love with them and then ghost you? – All About Love Bombing
So, you’re dating someone, and they are making you feel amazing. You even think… wow This could be the one. They compliment you, give you excess attention, make you attracted to them, you have officially fallen head over heels with them. Then… They end things abruptly out of nowhere or ghost you.
Love bombing is a fascinating concept. And there has been endless studies on it. Basically the #1 reason this happens is because of a person’s insecurities and their inability to trust and depend on other people.
People that love bomb don’t feel good about themselves unless they are making someone else fall completely in love with them. Their insecurities are so bad that they need to know that someone is head over heels for them just for their ego to be fed.
Once they have someone fall for them, their needs are met. They can finally feel good about themselves.
Then that person after saying and showing absolutely everything, you want to hear and do, ends things. And you are so confused and devastated wonder what is wrong with me? But it has nothing to do with you, you are collateral damage to them just having a cruel need to be loved and admired.
If this has or is happening to you, do not feel bad about yourself for falling for this person. They told you everything you wanted to hear, and they did things you have always wanted to do… You were “sold” on the idea of them, they presented themselves as the perfect person for you.
But just remember when you are feeling down about yourself and crazy… that the person you “fell for” that’s not actually them and not who they really are. They changed what they were saying and doing to suit exactly what they knew you would want to hear and do, just so you would fall for them. And you are NOT crazy for trusting them and having feelings for them.
70% of Americans have been love bombed. You are not alone. If you want to hear some of our crazy stories tune into our Podcast at werehard.com and listen to our love bombing episode
Hi! My name is Kimmy B, I am the co-host of the We’reHard podcast. I have a passion for fitness, nutrition and a healthy lifestyle. I’ve always loved working out and staying active but recently found my groove in the fitness industry.