Is make-up SEX Better?
One big question I get asked by our viewers Is whether make-up sex better is better then regular sex? Or, Should I pick a fight with my lover then go have sex with him?
If you’re in a relationship you know how it goes. You get in a fight and you’re both fired up, then all of a sudden you want sex and you must have it.
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Make-up sex can be so hot and it definitely feels different and more passionate than your normal everyday sexual encounter. But why?
Researchers suggest that the rumble in the sheets right after that rumble in the streets can be more passionate and intense! That’s because there’s a large amount of oxytocin or better known as the “love hormone” is being secreted. When those chemicals in the brain are released, it causes a strong relaxing sensation in the face of the stressors.
The release of Oxytocin during sex makes couples feel closer emotionally and physically. They get that ‘feel good’ rush that soothes some of the emotions that may have come to the surface during the argument.
Makeup Sex After an argument can be a fun and interesting space to explore. Sometimes this makeup sex can add spice and novelty to the relationship. Also, when cortisol is released from stress, your body and mind yearns for closeness that only sex can provide.
Our attachment system gets activated during a fight and activates those fight or flight instincts. Sex after this rush can calm the nervous system and return our bodies to homeostasis.
Arguing arouses the system with fear, where excitement gets that blood pumping. It’s no wonder we get turned on while we’re supposed to be upset!
While this behavior isn’t especially healthy, there are other ways to activate this fight or flight feeling to help you both get that good “make-up” sex feelings.
Try new positions, get a little wild and try a public place, introduce toys or watch some porn may help in adding to that heightened experience! Or better yet pick a fight and see what happens, LOL
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