WHAT IS THE IDEAL SEX DURATION? HMMMM
According to a survey, vaginal sex that lasts one to two minutes is “too short” and not enough time for us ladies. And vaginal sex that lasts 10 to 30 minutes is “too long.” I’m not too sure about that….. But let’s talk about it……
So how long should vaginal sex actually last?
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In a sex therapist survey; it’s said that 7 to 13 minutes is an ideal duration for vaginal sex. I guess that’s pretty good…
Now, It’s important to note that these figures only apply to penile-vaginal intercourse. They don’t account for things like foreplay, and they aren’t representative of other types of sex.
Most studies are based on the time it takes for the man to ejaculate during vaginal penetration.
But this isn’t how everyone defines sex. Many people consider the end of sex to be once all involved parties have climaxed.
What you want out of an sexual encounter is also important. Sex should be pleasurable over anything else, and this comes down to ones personal preference. Some people want a long, sensual encounter, while others want something fast or quarrelsome. LOL……. get in and get out! as some of you may call it!
But i think the key is that you’re having satisfying sex, and not trying to beating the clock.
All that said, you can’t fight biology. In some cases, underlying biological factors may affect how long your sexual activities last such as: Age, Genitalia, Sexual dysfunction
If you want shorter encounters. If a quickie is all you want, these techniques may help you get there faster: Touch yourself, Tell your partner what you want, and Try climax-inducing positions.
If you want longer encounters that prolong your sexploration, these techniques may help.
Have you heard of the “Semans stop-start technique”? Also known as “edging,” this involves temporarily stopping all sexual stimulation when you feel like you’re close to ejaculation. You and your partner can resume your activity once this feeling has passed. Although this technique was originally founded to help a person who has a penis delay ejaculation, it can be used by anyone looking to prolong climax. What about the “Johnsons and Masters squeeze technique”? This technique entails gently squeezing the end of the penis for several seconds just before ejaculation until the urge subsides. It can also be used to practice ejaculatory control.
The bottom line is that the definition of what sex is, individual expectations, and mutual desires and what you make of it, all of these influence how long sex may last. So grab your partner and a stopwatch and get busy!
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Hi! My name is Kimmy B, I am the co-host of the We’reHard podcast. I have a passion for fitness, nutrition and a healthy lifestyle. I’ve always loved working out and staying active but recently found my groove in the fitness industry.