We’ve decided that most men need a little help in the bedroom. So, guys listen up because today we have some useful tips to get her hot and ready! First let’s look at what women are looking for and what we really want.
Guys, this means you need to look and feel your best. Do a little manscaping, wear some nice cologne, but don’t overdo it. We like a confident man who takes care of himself, not some stinky hairball.
Be confident and have fun! Tell her what you’d like to do to her, then do it! Women love a man who can follow through on his word. Talk a little dirty to get her warmed up.
Guys if you want to have her melting in your hands you need to stimulate the clit. This area has so many nerves and is sensitive, it needs attention, and if you want to have her cuming back for more, don’t leave this area out!
You also want to pay close attention to her body language. Is she leaning in closer to you? Is her body trembling? Is she gripping your body closer or tighter? These are all good signs, keep up with what you are doing. On the other hand, if she is rigid or pulling away STOP what you are doing and redirect.
Get her wet by using lube or saliva. This can help eliminate any uncomfortable friction and can also be fun! Don’t be afraid to get a little messy.
Guys we like to know you are enjoying yourself. That’s a huge turn on! So, moan, talk dirty, tell her you like it!
Finger her gently at first. Don’t just go full force like a jackhammer. Start slowly and then build up to what she likes, remember to watch her body language and you’ll know.
We women get the most pleasure out of the whole experience from start to finish. From foreplay to sex to cuddling after. Make her feel confident in knowing you care about her needs, and she’ll most likely return the favor.
Be spontaneous! Women love it when a man can grab her passionately and make her feel good (just be sure you have consent)
Allow her to show you what she wants. Let her take the lead while you enjoy yourself. When you see her start to climax allow her to, without switching things up, this will often kill the mood.
Be open to trying new things and don’t be judgmental. If your lady has some kinky ideas give them a try! This will spice things up and allow her to take charge while experiencing a fantasy with you.
LISTEN to her! This one is important because you can learn what she wants and does not want.
So, guys next time you’re fooling around try a few or all of these tips and watch her go wild!
Hi! My name is Kimmy B, I am the co-host of the We’reHard podcast. I have a passion for fitness, nutrition and a healthy lifestyle. I’ve always loved working out and staying active but recently found my groove in the fitness industry.