Penetrative sex feels amazing! But if she’s not wet it can be uncomfortable and downright painful! This little and annoying problem makes orgasming and enjoying sex a big challenge.
Think about it, forcing an erect penis into a dry vagina…Yeah, it just doesn’t sound like fun! And I am sure most men want to be an amazing lover and give their partner the best, and most mind blowing sexual experience!
So, what are the best ways to get her wet? Keep reading until the end to find out!
Ok, now let’s get down to the juicy part. First you need to remember that women typically take longer to get aroused than men. So, just because you are ready to go, this doesn’t necessarily mean she is.
This is important! If she is wet, she’ll be much more likely to want to have sex with you! If she’s wet, then she’s aroused and ready to go! So, make sure she’s wet! You get the point, right?
So how do we create this juicy wetness? First before you even get near her vagina, use the right language to arouse, excite, and seduce her. Embrace her from behind, get your lips nice and close to her ear and whisper something delicious like, “Your body is so beautiful, I cannot wait to run my tongue up and down it.”
Next start kissing her, this creates a connection and can ignite that fiery passion between both of you. Now you’ll want to start touching her body, explore her erogenous zones like: Her arms and legs, moving up her face and thighs, caressing her hips and butt, then work your up to her breasts and genitals; explore her curves with your tongue and hands, build up that anticipation!
The very first moment you touch her down there is very important! Don’t be rushed or firm, don’t jam your fingers in or give too much friction. Be gentle, even simply cupping the vagina with your palm can create immense pleasure for her, you’ll feel her relax and surrender to your touch.
Now you can start to move your hand around her pussy, caressing and massaging the whole area.
Don’t forget to use your mouth! Oral sex is one of the top skills you should master. Going down on her can be orgasmic and creates that amazing juiciness you’re both looking for.
Play with her entire body, tease her! This is not the time to be selfish. Don’t leave anything out and follow her ques. You’ll know what she likes by watching and listening to her reactions. Allow for a few moments of slowness and stillness. This builds that excitement and creates that tease she is looking for. Switch between building and relaxing.
After about 10-30 minutes of this you can tell if she’s ready to go, by gently placing your finger at the entrance to her vagina or simply asking her. If she feels moist, she’s probably ready but…
Make her wait! This typically blows women’s minds, because men are usually in such a rush to penetrate, to get inside and to get on with the act. So, if you make her wait for it a little bit she will be putty in your hands. Go back to teasing her for a short time before you both are ready.
By now she should be nice and wet and begging for it! So, guys use these tips, and visit Werehard.com and use code HARD50 to buy toys and lubricants to speed up the arousal process. Make sure to comment below and let us know how it goes or if you have more tips!
Hi! My name is Kimmy B, I am the co-host of the We’reHard podcast. I have a passion for fitness, nutrition and a healthy lifestyle. I’ve always loved working out and staying active but recently found my groove in the fitness industry.