When you hear the words “soft penis” do you immediately think Whomp! Whomp? Today I’m going to talk about what to do when he goes soft in the bedroom and how to NOT let it ruin the mood, how to help him get back to full attention AND how this can be a good thing for your sex life!
Let’s first look at why he may not be getting an erection, and ladies, it most likely has nothing to do with you!
Here are some reasons he may be going soft: Fatigue, Stress, Performance Anxiety, Age, Health Problems, Emotional problems in the relationship and many other factors can all affect a man’s ability to get hard.
But this does not necessarily mean that he can’t have sex! There are many other ways to play in the bedroom that do not include penetration. These include manual stimulation, oral stimulation, erotic massages, mutual masturbation, self-touch when we’re together, kissing, affection and so many more! None of these require a hard on, you can even penetrate your partner without a full erection.
You both must be willing and open to it, and the truth is a soft penis is still a very sensitive penis! The nerve endings are still there and active, and a man can still enjoy his member being handled and pleasured. Ladies, it can also be enjoyable for you!
You don’t have to worry about his sausage not fitting in your mouth during oral because when it is soft you can fit the whole thing in your mouth!
It may also feel gentler during penetration (just make sure you have plenty of good quality lube), you can also rub your genitals together which will stimulate a lot of different delicious erogenous zones.
You can also use your fingers or introduce toys into the bedroom. This makes sex fun and exciting for both of you while you explore one another’s body.
Don’t let anyone tell you that if you are not fully hard you cannot have sex. There are many other ways to please and get pleasure without an erection.
If you are concerned about your erections visit ourdoctor.com and ask one of our on-call doctors about Viagra or Cialis. Now go have fun with your partner and don’t stress about it!
Hi! My name is Kimmy B, I am the co-host of the We’reHard podcast. I have a passion for fitness, nutrition and a healthy lifestyle. I’ve always loved working out and staying active but recently found my groove in the fitness industry.