How to get under someone else to get over a breakup:
The phrase “get under someone else” is often used to describe starting a new relationship and sleeping with someone new shortly after a breakup. While this can be a way to distract yourself from the pain of the split, it is not always the healthiest way to move on.
Before you start sleeping with someone new, consider giving yourself enough time to heal and taking things slow before you start dating again after a breakup. But if you feel like you’re ready, here are some fun tips!
- Use dating apps or websites. This is a great way to meet new people interested in casual dating.
- Attend social events. This is a great way to meet people in person. Try going to singles mixers, meetups, bars, or other events that interest you.
- Ask your friends and family to set you up. They may know someone who is looking for a casual relationship.
- Be confident. When you’re dating casually, it’s important to be confident in yourself. This will attract the right kind of people and make the whole process more enjoyable.
Here are some things to avoid when casually dating and trying to find someone to “get under”:
- Don’t get too attached too quickly. Casual dating is all about having fun and meeting new people. If you start to get too attached too quickly, it can be emotionally draining.
- Don’t lie about your intentions. If you’re not looking for anything serious, be upfront about it. This will save you and your date a lot of time and heartache.
- Don’t be afraid to end things if it’s not working out. There’s no need to drag things out if you’re not on the same page.
Casual dating and sleeping with someone new can be a great way to meet new people, have fun, and explore your options, while ALSO getting over your ex. Remember to be honest about your intentions, have fun, be safe, wear condoms, and be confident.
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