Getting engaged is an exciting part of a relationship. It’s the point where you and your loved one are preparing for marriage, planning for a new level of commitment. Of course, there are no specifics for how long an engagement should last. What’s the right amount of time to be engaged?
Tips for Engagement Length
1. Consider Next Life Steps
One of the first items to consider when deciding your engagement length is your next steps in life. Do you want to get started on a family right away? Travel the world? Purchase a home as a married couple?
If you have pertinent plans that will benefit from a short engagement, it might be a good idea to have a short engagement experience. You can get started far sooner on your life goals with minimal engagement. If you don’t have anything urgent, take your time.
2. Ponder Wedding Size
If you want a massive and extravagant wedding, it will take time to plan. Even minimal weddings with a large crowd will take at least half a year to plan, and many venues and talent aren’t available for months. A lengthy engagement allows more time to prepare and get things ready.
On the other hand, those who want to get married and don’t care about having a detailed wedding will benefit from a shorter engagement. There is less time necessary for planning and preparing.
3. Think About Life Circumstances
Maybe you’re trying to get a job or live across the country from your partner. In that case, you might want a long engagement to figure out what’s happening before getting married. Partners who have jobs secured and live in the same area might be more comfortable with a shorter engagement.
4. Decide What You Want
Ultimately, it’s up to you to decide what you want. Talk with your partner and decide that will work for both of your lives – after all, this is the start of the rest of your life. It should work best for both of you.
Hi! My name is Kimmy B, I am the co-host of the We’reHard podcast. I have a passion for fitness, nutrition and a healthy lifestyle. I’ve always loved working out and staying active but recently found my groove in the fitness industry.