No matter how long it has been since your divorce, it can be stressful to jump back into the dating scene. There are fears of picking the wrong person again, far less time to go on dates, a smaller dating pool, and even a lack of experience from being married for so long. Luckily, there are several tips you can use to successfully date after a divorce.
Why Date After Divorce?
Dating after divorce is a good idea if you’re comfortable that your marriage has ended and you’re hunting for something new. Never push yourself, remember, you are never obligated to date anyone again after a divorce. However, if you do, there are several tips to remember.
Tips for Dating After Divorce
1. Take Things Slow: Remember to take things slow, especially when dipping your toes into dating for the first time in a long time. Check out your options, and don’t be afraid to hold back to avoid making a hasty decision.
2. Create Realistic Expectations: Set realistic expectations for yourself. Allow yourself room to step back from dates and take things one step at a time. Ensure your expectations aren’t sky-high for dating.
3. Understand What You Want: Don’t be afraid to know what you’re looking for as you step back into the dating scene. Maybe you know what went wrong in your previous relationship and want to avoid it, be upfront about it.
4. Be Honest: Be honest and straightforward with the people you decide to date. You can be honest about what you’re looking for, about your past, and anything else you feel necessary to disclose so you’re comfortable if you like a person.
5. Eye Red Flags: Keep watch for red flags. If you notice any, even on the third or fourth date, get out as soon as possible.
Hi! My name is Kimmy B, I am the co-host of the We’reHard podcast. I have a passion for fitness, nutrition and a healthy lifestyle. I’ve always loved working out and staying active but recently found my groove in the fitness industry.