Dating is always hard, but when you are dating someone from another culture, the challenges you will experience go through the roof. A partner from a different culture won’t just see the world differently, but their family will as well.
When starting a relationship with someone from another culture, empathy and an objective viewpoint on issues are key. Remembering that your partner comes from a different background and has a different view on life can help you maintain an understanding and navigate your relationship successfully.
Tips for the Success of an Intercultural Relationship:
1. Empathize Before You Speak
If your partner has said something that sounds a bit strange or doesn’t line up with your culture, think of how they feel before you respond. It is unlikely that their statement was meant to be malicious, they likely just didn’t understand.
2. Celebrate Both Cultures
Just because you are dating someone from another culture doesn’t mean you have to throw away your traditions and upbringing. Instead, find a way to merge the traditions of both cultures together.
3. Be Prepared to Compromise
Not all traditions will be able to mesh with your traditions. Make a list of the traditions that are non-negotiable for you to maintain, and make a list of those you don’t mind exchanging for your partner’s traditions.
4. Listen and Learn
You may not have learned about your partner’s culture in school. Even if you have, it’s better to listen and learn from your partner rather than risk doing something culturally inappropriate by accident because of your lack of knowledge.
Any intercultural relationship will be a challenge, but with the proper attitude and resources, they can also be very rewarding. Be prepared to listen, empathize, and compromise as you speak with your partner, especially when it comes to cultural traditions and celebrations.
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