Of course, no dating relationship will be perfect. Every couple fights every so often, and most have something about the other person that gets under their skin.
However, it’s crucial to keep an eye out for red flags. If you notice any of these in your dating partner, you should say no, whether that means taking a step back or leaving them altogether.
Notable Dating Red Flags
1. Obnoxiously Controlling Behavior
First, watch out for any behavior that tries to control and manipulate you. They might try to control your emotions, beliefs, decisions, clothes, and anything else that is part of your personality. Instead of looking for what is best for you, they want to mold you into someone they approve of.
If you feel like your significant other is trying to control you, it’s a red flag. A healthy relationship is full of compromise and compassion for your partner.
2. Physical, Emotional, or Mental Abuse
One clear red flag is physical, emotional, or mental abuse. Although these might seem obvious, it’s often hard for a person experiencing these to know what they’re dealing with.
Your partner should never lay a hand on you or use you as a sounding board to smash down and blame for their problems. If you suspect abuse in your relationship, get out as soon as possible.
3. Feeling Low Self-Esteem
Your partner should never make you feel worse about yourself. If they spend ample time with you and are the recipients of your affection, they should build you up, not rip you apart.
Keep watch for support from your partner. If they offer nothing and make you feel terrible, take that as a serious red flag.
4. Anger Management Issues
Finally, watch for anger management issues. If there is any emotional conflict between you two, you might notice that they don’t have excellent control over their feelings.
No matter what you’re talking about, you should feel comfortable with your partner. Any anger issues that make it impossible to mention sensitive items safely is a serious red flag.
Hi! My name is Kimmy B, I am the co-host of the We’reHard podcast. I have a passion for fitness, nutrition and a healthy lifestyle. I’ve always loved working out and staying active but recently found my groove in the fitness industry.