If you’ve been with your loved one for a long time, it’s normal to struggle with making your sex life exciting. Luckily, with the right effort, it isn’t that tricky to take your intimacy to new heights and bring life back into your sex.
Why Make Your Sex Life Exciting?
Making your sex life exciting is an excellent way to show your partner you care about them and want to make things interesting. It allows you and your loved one to get to know each other, explore new aspects of each other, and learn new things. It sets a solid foundation for the future and forms those warm and fuzzy feelings again.
Tips for Spicing Up Intimacy
1. Create a Bucket List
Form a bucket list of items you want to accomplish in your sex life. You add a few things and have your partner write down some things. They can be as crazy or as simple as you want – that’s the point of a bucket list.
A bucket list is exciting because it can make romantic feelings arise in random places or at random times. It can also set up thrilling experiences in the future.
2. Pick New Positions
One of the simplest ways to spice up your sex life is to choose new positions. Most couples have some standards they go to every single time – add some one-of-a-kind ones. Even if you hate them and never try them again, it’s a new experience that will bring you closer together.
3. Set the Mood Early
The mood for a thrilling evening of intercourse comes far before the first kiss. Setting the mood beforehand is critical for the experience, from complimenting your partner to cleaning the house for them. Make quiet comments, drop hints, and treat them as if you’re trying to get them to fall in love for the first time.
4. Prioritize Non-Sexual Intimacy
Non-sexual intimacy is vital in making your sex life more exciting. Learn your partner’s love language and show them you care – it’s a sure set-up for a thrilling sex life.
5. Try Something New
Trying something new doesn’t have to be in the bedroom. Go on a date night out of your comfort zone, and it’s sure to create a better time at home. Go skydiving, scale a rock wall, or go on a random road trip. It’s a path to romantic success.
Hi! My name is Kimmy B, I am the co-host of the We’reHard podcast. I have a passion for fitness, nutrition and a healthy lifestyle. I’ve always loved working out and staying active but recently found my groove in the fitness industry.