Whether you’ve been with your partner for years or are getting intimate for the first time, it’s always possible for things to be awkward in the bedroom. It’s frustrating when these situations arise. Luckily, there are several ways to reduce awkwardness in the bedroom.
Why Can the Bedroom Be Awkward?
Most of the time, awkwardness in sex comes from a lack of confidence in one or both of the partners. One person might not feel secure in themselves or their ability, which can change the tone of the situation for everyone.
Awkwardness can be dangerous for a relationship if it becomes a habit. It will take some practice to change the situation, but with dedication and love, it’s possible to get your intimate life back on track.
How to Make Things Less Awkward
1. Check Up
One of the best ways to reduce awkwardness in the bedroom is to check on your partner during your time together. Even when doing the deed, you can speak to them to see how they’re doing.
Talk to your partner, but don’t start a full-on conversation with them. Ask if what you’re doing is okay and see if they want anything specific at that moment.
2. Understand Body Language
Sometimes, your partner might be afraid of saying how they’re feeling, so you should look at their body language to determine if they’re uncomfortable. If you notice something seems off, ask questions as soon as possible.
For example, they might avoid eye contact or pull away at your touch. Speak to them to resolve conflict and take other steps as necessary.
3. Be Funny
Humor is a surprising way to lighten things up in a sexual encounter. Try to make fun of the awkwardness, bringing it to light and pushing it out of the way with your partner. It will make things far more comfortable in the long term, and it’s an excellent skill.
4. Use Praise
Finally, ensure you praise your partner throughout your time together. Offer compliments if they seem like they lack confidence in their ability. A small compliment will go a long way.
Hi! My name is Kimmy B, I am the co-host of the We’reHard podcast. I have a passion for fitness, nutrition and a healthy lifestyle. I’ve always loved working out and staying active but recently found my groove in the fitness industry.