Today we’ll be talking about 10 facts about dating that will change the way you think about love.
Let’s dive in! Sometimes we think that if we initially don’t find someone attractive, we will never fall in love with them. The truth is that 43% of singles have fallen in love with someone they did not initially find attractive. So, first impressions may not be the best to tell.
The next fact is that new partners do not want to hear about your ex on the first date. In fact, 72% of singles said this is a no no. So, save the tea for later in the relationship and don’t divulge too much even then.
Here’s an interesting myth. Singles rarely think about long term commitments on the first date. 51% of men and 49% of women have imagines a future together while on the first date. So, guys are more likely to see a future with their first date partner. Ladies, take note!
We also tend to think that romantic love is always triggered by attraction at first, but studies show that 54% of singles say they fell in love with someone they didn’t initially find attractive, they fell in love after great conversation, or common interests.
So what about love at first sight? Well 34% of singles- that being 41% of men and 29% of women have experienced love at first sight. That being said, 53% said they believe in it!
Another myth is that Intense, passionate, and romantic love lasts no more than a few months. However, when 28% of singles were surveyed, they were indeed in love with their last partner for two to five years, and 27% of singles were in love with their last partner for six to ten years or more.
We all may think that getting married really shows you’re in love with someone. But most singles don’t want to get married because they believe you don’t need to prove your love to others. It’s long said that marriage can provide a sense of companionship and support, but these days it’s become much less important in many people’s lives. Is it a clear and outdated institution? Message us with your thoughts on this.
Do single men want more nights out with friends and do men like being single more than women? They do not! A majority of men don’t see a guy’s night out as a top priority, and they also don’t like being single! Hmmm this makes me think, do some women and men give their partners a Hall Pass?
This will no doubt change the dynamic of your relationship. So, a hall pass, also known as a freebee, could open the relationship right up or cause some major damage. What is the motive behind giving this pass to your partner, is it so you can cheat too? Is that a means out of the relationship?
I personally feel this is not up for discussion. My man belongs to me and I don’t want to share that with anyone else. If he does cheat, I’d rather not know about it, and I’m definitely not giving him permission.
So, do you think men are turned off by successful strong women? Absolutely not, in fact 87% of men would date a woman who makes considerably more money than them. So, does these mean men want a sugar momma? Hmmm
Lastly ladies! men like to be asked out. So don’t believe the myth that it’s a turn off when a woman asks a man on a first date. Put on those big girl panties, suck it up and ask him out already! Make sure to Like, Follow, and subscribe to our socials or visit Werehard.com. And to Hear more, make sure to tune in wherever you listen to podcasts and send us topic ideas on whatever. Bye
Hi! My name is Kimmy B, I am the co-host of the We’reHard podcast. I have a passion for fitness, nutrition and a healthy lifestyle. I’ve always loved working out and staying active but recently found my groove in the fitness industry.